Aspect for the week beginning 7 April 2013 – Venus conjunct Mars
The Aspect for today, and for the tone of the week, is Venus conjunct Mars. Thus various forces represented by Venus and Mars seek to combine, such as peace and war, love and sex, money and spending.
Conjunctions
Some conjunctions are easier to combine, blend and work together than others. There are planets who naturally team up, such as the Sun and Moon (who also team up this week for a New Moon), Venus and Mars (easier to unite than some), Jupiter and Saturn (opposites, but they have a lot to give each other in terms of balance), and other planets who do not harmonize so well (Mars and Saturn, Uranus and Saturn, Uranus and Pluto, for instance).
Venus conjunct Mars
Venus (sensuality) meets Mars (sexuality) and there is a natural magnetism between these two. The thrill of the chase may be for the young:
“Bold Lover, neveer canst thou kiss,
Though winning near the goal – Yet, do not grieve;
She cannot fade, though thou has not thy bliss,
For ever wilt thou love, and she be fair!”
~ John Keats
Some chase all their lives; some choose to sublimate, or develop other passions. Venusian pleasures are vast: food, money, gardening, painting – to name but a few. So it is a week to develop your passion, wherever it may lie.
Balancing Sexuality
In past life regression, people are often surprised to find themselves in a body of the opposite sex. In these times, in this incarnation, there are more possibilities and permutations of expression, from androgyny, through heterosexuality and homosexuality to bisexuality. In previous eras, there were fewer options, and more suppression. Some people coming into incarnation are in a transitional period, e.g. male after a series of female lifetimes, or vice versa, and this can result in gender dysphoria. Everyone needs to find their level for this phase of their Soul evolution. But everyone needs to balance their inner female and inner male, and this is what Venus conjunct Mars is about. A helpful book in this respect is “Feminine Fusion” by Chris Griscom.
Archetype – “The Lover”
For this Archetype, Caroline Myss gives the following:
“May manifest in anyone who exhibits great passion and devotion to another, but also to art, music, gardening, nature, or needlepoint…
Shadow lover manifests as an exaggerated or obsessive passion that has a destructive effect on your physical or mental health and self-esteem”
People with Venus conjunct Mars in the birthchart
Miranda Hart – Much of her comedy is centred around her own sexual image
Giacomo Casanova – Who has become himself an Archetype of “The Lover”
Amy Winehouse – Having this conjunction in Leo, she used it in her creativity
Michael Douglas – Back in 1990, Michael Douglas was the first to be “reported” to be a sex addict (long before he met Catherine Zeta Jones).
Bill Clinton – An eye for the ladies could be said to be his downfall…
Emily Bronte – Arguably the most sensual and passionate of the Bronte clan.
Aspects
Today, Venus is conjunct Mars, so follow your passion today, and try to be in balance. For instance if you are shopping, you may be attracted to items which in the long term may not be very useful to you. Observe which chakra the desire to spend is coming from. This aspect may hold sway throughout the week, and you may hear of a new liaison in the world of celebrity. The conjunction takes place at 20 degrees of Aries, so if you have a natal planet in that degree you will be able to capitalize on this.
On Wednesday (10th) there is a New Moon in Aries, enabling a new beginning in self-development, and additional outlets for energy and passion. What do you feel is the next step for you in your growth, or the next active or physical project? Wednesday’s New Moon is an opportunity to make a truly fresh start, being the first New Moon of the astrological year. The New Moon is, like Venus conjoining Mars, a marriage of the male principle (in this case the Sun) and the female principle (Moon). So there is extra male-female balancing, and it also takes place at 20 degrees of Aries, so if it is your birthday or you have a natal planet at 20 degrees Aries, you will certainly be the centre of attention and at the centre of the action.
Finally, on Friday (12th) Pluto is Stationary, prior to turning retrograde. All the planets involved in this week’s story (Venus, Mars, Moon, Sun) are very personal to us, but in comparison to Pluto, they are skimming the surface. So we may have had a pleasant and pleasurable week, we may have made some short term gains, but by Friday we may realize that we have deeper work yet to do. We shall return to the navel gazing and the deeper study of ourselves (coming from reading “Bridget Jones’ Diary” early in the week, to “Pluto” by Jeff Green later in the week). So, summing up, capturing your joie de vivre today and midweek, and then rejoining the journey towards a deeper experience and appreciation of life on Friday.
The week in bullet points:
- Today – amoureuse
- Wednesday – carpe diem
- Friday – back to the psychological grindstone
April 7th, 2013 at 3:56 pm
I read Venus as harmony in any event – and Mars as dissonance in any situation, so this week’s aspects can be read in that light too.
i.e. Venus and Mars are not just about sex.
Asia
April 7th, 2013 at 4:24 pm
Dear Asia
Hopefully I have not given the impression that this conjunction is just about sex. That certainly wasn’t my intention, but Mars can be domineering over Venus, and sexual balance I think is an important principle in this conjunction.
I am a Venusian, with a chart where Mars is lacking in expression, but my observations are based to a great extent on having known people with this conjunction, and it often has a very distinctive struggle but can produce beautiful outcomes.
Love
Lana
April 7th, 2013 at 5:07 pm
A short while ago I was basking in slightly milder weather conditions, watching my niece’s two youngsters, 7 and 3 years, playing in their back garden. The balance exists, a boy and a girl, plus as an adult my inner child was liberated, again. I’m not sure if linked to today’s aspects, but it felt right, and fun. Meanwhile, it seems I have oodles of opportunities for fresh starts of new and old projects. Thanks Lana, for an uplifting blog, and wishing a happy week to us all, love Sarah.
April 8th, 2013 at 9:56 am
Dear Sarah
That’s a wonderful snapshot of family balancing!
It can be hard work for a male surrounded by females in a family, or for a woman surrounded by testosterone, as they have to provide the balance.
Make the most of this sunshine – maybe the weather forecasters will be wrong about more cold weather to come this week.
Love
Lana
April 11th, 2013 at 2:06 pm
A consideration of male/female balancing has been surfacing most strongly and publicly this week following the death of Margaret Thatcher.
And while I am at it “GLENDA JACKSON. I LOVE YOU!”
April 11th, 2013 at 2:53 pm
Hello Lana,
I feel as if I’ve been in hibernation over Winter!
Hubby has been busy doing a Woodwork Project during the cold spell, in the warmth of our garage!
Although I never miss reading your Wonderful Blog.
So many things have been happening in the news of late, so it’s such a treat to read your Blog each Sunday, as it always helps me to understand the Astrological side of things.
Hopefully the weather is going to warm up this weekend, that would be so good if it does.
Enjoy the rest of the week, Love Shirley.
April 11th, 2013 at 5:12 pm
Interesting aspects, none of which seem to be particularly active in my week. At some level we have balance the energies in our home by finding a new forever home for Phoenix (yay). This took Bean a cross country adventure, driving Ms Phi to Chicago (2,047.6 miles or 3295.3km). After dropping the dog off at her new home, he flew from Chicago to Washington DC to work for a week. He’ll fly back to Chicago tomorrow then drive back to LA.
Meanwhile, the group left behind has been reforming itself. All-in-all a great, positive shift in the energies, but for our Jolie dog who has an injured right leg. Which zooms me up to today where I was electrified out of bed at oh-gawd-early by the piercing shriek of pain emitted by none other than Ms Joliebel. Needless to say, we hit the road early and were first at the vet’s surgery. She’s now resting there and will be xrayed, poked and prodded (and hopefully not have to be operated on nor put into a cast…) whilst I am across the street trying to pull myself together enough to treat my patients.
Perhaps this whole week has just been a focusing in on what Friday will bring us (Bear, the dogs, me – all of us). We’re certainly focusing on what’s important and what brings deeper meaning to our lives, as well as how to incorporate that into our outer, public lives (him – work, me – clinic/patients). Seems like it’s time to wash Joli and transform her into a clinic dog!
Enough rambling. Thank you, as always Lana, for a thought provoking blog. And thanks Sarah for a beautiful word-picture of your idyllic day. Hope the rest of the week was wonderful as well.
Dia
P.S. We had gale-force winds earlier in the week, perhaps literally blowing away the superficial in preparation for this next round of deeper work to do (sustained winds up to 40+mph with gusts up into the 110s….VERY intense)
P.P.S. – Thanks for the update, Shirley. It’s good to hear from you again!
April 11th, 2013 at 5:14 pm
Hm, seems there’s some mischief in the electrons this morning, that sentence should read “This took Bear on a cross country adventure…
April 12th, 2013 at 8:47 am
Dear Janet
Yes, some have claimed Margaret was a woman and some called her a man; also some claimed she inspired women to go into politics and others claimed that she set back the cause of feminism.
Another notable male-female balancing issue in the news this week was the attempt by women to be allowed to pray on an equal footing with men at the Western Wall in Israel.
Many thanks for your contribution!
Love
Lana
April 12th, 2013 at 8:54 am
Dear Shirley
It’s so good to hear from you! I echo Dia’s sentiments.
My hubby has also been spending time in his man shed in the garden…
It is still cold, but I am looking out for a rise in temperature. I couldn’t live in a permanently cold climate (though I have in past lives!)
Enjoy the promised 20 degrees when it comes, and thank you for your comment,
Love
Lana
April 12th, 2013 at 9:09 am
Dear Dia
Many thanks for your update!
It is a surprise to hear that Phoenix has left the nest, but hopefully a good move for her. Glad to hear the family dynamics are harmonious.
Healing thoughts to Jolie, and good travels to Bear
Love
Lana
April 12th, 2013 at 10:30 pm
Lana –
Thanks, and may I request some of those healing thoughts for me too? I had to deal with an intractable dog very early this morning and had a slip & fall against her crate, resulting in a bunged knee and palm, a split lip and a very sore head (and maybe a cracked nose, but so far it just hurts so maybe not).
Dogs are the vurry divil as my Scottish friends would say.
Hugs to y’all –
Dia
April 13th, 2013 at 9:20 am
Dear Dia
Sending soothing vibes; hope your injuries are indeed superficial, and thanks for letting us know.
I am full of admiration for the courage of all my dog-owning readers!
Love and Light
Lana