Aspects for the week beginning 7 July 2013
Saatchi vs Lawson
We were forced into the prurient act of seeing what seemed like a public near-strangling by Charles Saatchi, when pictures of Charles Saatchi at the throat of his wife Nigella Lawson outside a London restaurant were displayed all over the media last month. This morning it was announced that he is to divorce her, citing the damage to his reputation as one of the problems. She has since been taken up, unwittingly and possibly reluctantly, as a poster girl for domestic violence.
Nigella
Nigella was born into a political family: indeed her father Nigel Lawson is graphically portrayed in her chart as Sun in Capricorn (politician father) conjunct Saturn (accentuating the politics). She did not have a good relationship with her mother, who did not treat her well. She describes her as depressed, but as she is depicted in Nigella’s chart she comes over as fiery and volatile (Sun in Aries trine Mars and Jupiter).
She was first married to a high profile journalist John Diamond, who wrote about his experience of having cancer (he had a difficult close natal square between the Sun and Pluto), and died while their children were quite young. His Pluto was conjunct her Uranus, and his Uranus was opposite her Sun, and they were separated by death. She was praised at the time for her caring approach to her husband’s illness, and her steadfastness.
Though her father and husband were gifted, she forged a name for herself in a different field, as self-styled Domestic Goddess. She has a highly entrepreneurial exact trine between Jupiter and Uranus. I am not a fan of her quantities of sugar and butter (natal Venus square Pluto tendency to excess), which may be hypocritical as I have a sweet tooth, but I do like the girl, and she does have a popular following.
Quite apart from the central issue of possible violence (Saatchi asserts that it was playfulness) it will have been destructive to her desire to keep an image of domestic bliss through her TV chef career. However, her popularity is such that I think she could successful rebrand herself without the marriage.
She and Charles Saatchi married in September 2003.
Charles Saatchi
Charles Saatchi first made his name as an advertising executive teamed up with his brother Maurice. Theirs is a twinlike relationship, as they are both Geminis (the sign of advertising) and will have made natural business partners.
Charles and Nigella both have the Sun conjunct Saturn, which represents a desire to keep control of their image. We do not have birth times for them, so cannot see in which astrological Houses these are played out.
Further along his career, Charles became a patron of the Arts, collecting modern and Brit Art and establishing a gallery. Charles has Venus (Arts) in Leo conjunct Pluto and trine Mars. He would be passionate and intense about Art and its promotion and display (Leo). Mars trine Pluto can harbor violence, though more usually intense energy, and is not as violent as the square between these two planets. Violence, presumably, is the inability to manage one’s energies and emotions so that they may become directed outwards, and we know that many women too are capable of domestic violence.
Pluto was opposing Saatchi’s Sun when he married Nigella, so there may have been known issues regarding the explosiveness of his feelings even at that time.
In early 2012 he published a book expounding a controversial philosophical outlook entitled “Be the Worst you can Be”. In a statement he made today, he says the couple have been experiencing a deterioration in their relationship for about a year. Could it be that her trust was eroded from that time? Pluto was square to his Mars at the time, so his feelings may have been destructive then.
Synastry and Transits
They have some difficult interaspects (including his Mars square her Saturn, and his Uranus opposite her Venus) but also clearly have had a deep bond. His Mercury is trine exactly her North Node, a karmic connection. Another karmic connection is his Neptune conjunct exactly her North Node (confused karma). His Pluto also trines her Venus, a deep love originally. At the time of the public strangling Neptune was exactly squaring Nigella’s Venus, bringing confusion and illusion to her emotional life. Saturn was exactly squaring Saatchi’s natal Pluto, divorcing him from his feelings to an extent. She left the family home shortly afterwards. Nigella continues to stay silent about the event, and currently Pluto is transitting her Saturn, not encouraging her to speak out on her suffering.
Past Lives
Most of us do not have famous past lives, and some of us have perhaps one famous past life in order to taste the experience or hone a talent to the hilt. Some groups of souls who travel together over millennia do seek public office in order to achieve certain outcomes. For instance, the Kennedy clan have been likened to the Medicis. I have sometimes wondered whether Nigella and Charles were bit players in a group who may have been the Medicis. Nigella lived for some time in Florence, and named her daughter Cosima. Saatchi has been a patron of the Arts. Saatchi and Nigella may also have lived in ancient Mesopotamia, the site of the Saatchi brothers’ Iraqi origins, where Nigella may have been cooking up a storm in one of the latest clay pots!
Aspects
Tomorrow Venus trines Uranus making it a good day to set up social meetings, which can be most helpful, convivial, constructive, visionary and exciting. If you don’t plan such a meeting, you could happen on one spontaneously, such as a chance encounter on a train, or even a brief encounter in a railway station…
On the same day, Saturn turns direct, and you might feel that you are not having to push uphill quite so much. Plans could right themselves after a period of stagnation.
Finally, the same day brings a New Moon at 16 degrees Cancer: a day for new beginnings and consolidation of home and family affairs. If you know where this House falls in your natal chart, you’ll know more precisely where in your life this may apply. For example, it falls in my 3rd house of blogging and trips within the British Isles, and I will be visiting my grandson, so could find myself writing about family.
It can be a day of progress, altogether.
On Tuesday (9th) the Sun conjuncts Mercury at 17 degrees Cancer, close to the point of the New Moon, so if that was significant for you, the focus may be carried on the mental plane i.e. you may follow through a line of thought you started the day before. Imaginative writing thrives under Sun conjunct Mercury in Cancer.
We are well into the Cancerian season this week, as on Saturday (13th) Mars enters Cancer and you’ll pursue the Cancerian themes of home and family more energetically, and feel protective of young ones.
The week in bullet points:
- Tomorrow – sparkling society, progress and new family initiatives
- Tuesday – intense focus of the mind on emotional themes
- Saturday – new energy injected into home and family
July 7th, 2013 at 3:51 pm
Hm, no mention of the excrutiating too hot weather. Sorry, I really meant not to grumble but I hate extremes, and it’s extremely hot. Still, my energy bill finally resting, so I’m trying to be positive.
Relationship break ups are often sad, and I don’t know much about Nigella’s. I do know more now about their background Lana, thanks to your careful descriptions. Whatever was going on, I personally don’t think the putting of hands round someone’s neck is at all playfull. Menacing, more like. Snot removing, however ‘lovingly’ doesn’t work for me either. Hey ho.
Thanks for the aspects ahead, if I can adjust to the warmth I’m hoping for a happy week.
Love Sarah.
July 7th, 2013 at 6:47 pm
Lana –
Thanks for the insightful blog. And for what I HOPE will be hopeful aspects for my upcoming insanity, er, week.
I hope the helpful, convivial, constructive, visionary and exciting meeting tomorrow between Nellie and her fertility vet will result in a load of little Nellies and Midas’ (the sire).
For me, due to Bear suddenly travelling again (what IS the deal with the man?) I will be dropping Nellie off at the vets, zooming home, gathering the other dogs (after ensuring the cats/kittens have clean sand and enough food and water), jumping on the freeway and driving for 3+ hours to the Ranch to treat a patient and then drive back to the city house. I’ll pick Ms Nell up Tuesday morning and I fully plan to spend the rest of the week (which SHOULD be a relaxing one up at the Ranch) sleeping. 🙂
Bear should be back in time for us to make the best of Saturday’s aspect. And then Sunday, “our” Shaman is coming to cleanse the house since there’s still some malignant energy hanging around us and she suspects it’s residual energy left from the previous inhabitants.
But long before that can come about, I have to survive Monday so PLEASE hold us in your thoughts.
Love Dia
July 8th, 2013 at 9:02 am
Dear Sarah
We have been promised hot weather all week, so you’ll have time to find strategies for keeping cool.
Although I love this weather I can’t sit out in it any more as it drains me, but I manage an occasional walk round the garden, or cream tea on the patio.
Thank you for your kind commenting.
Love
Lana
July 8th, 2013 at 9:04 am
Dear Dia
Lovely to hear from you, but the snake update was not forthcoming! Maybe you have overcome…
Good luck to you, Bear, Nell and the Shaman!
You will be getting started as we are winding up today, so I shall remember to think of you on our journey home.
Thanks very much for your comment,
Love
Lana
July 9th, 2013 at 8:44 pm
Dear Lana
Fascinating to read of the tangled web of aspects between Nigella and Charles Saatchi. Doomed from the start? Fated to endure a destructive relationship?
I admit to having a jolly good laugh when I read of his grounds for divorcing her. Very predictable.
For today you write “intense focus of the mind on emotional themes” and indeed it is for several close friends – for today is the first anniversary of a very sudden, unexpected and traumatic death of a very lovely person.
The effects havent reached me yet but undoubtedly will catch up with me tomorrow when his wife and I spend the evening in the Quire of York Minster spellbound by the early medieval music of St Hildegard von Bingen
July 10th, 2013 at 3:13 am
Gads I’m lost in time – our house cleaning is the 21st not this Sunday. Oh well, we just have to survive in our current energetically confused state until then.
Snakes, I’m happy to say, have not reared their heinous heads recently. That said, I’m concerned about the blasted ground squirrels and their snake-attracting properties.
Today (Tuesday) WAS an emotionally focused day – I tried to pick Nellie up at 9am, waited for an hour in the vet’s surgery and gave up. I went back about 1 and finally the waiting area was clear so I was able to collect my poor freaked out (and hopefully pregnant) dog.
I was so frazzled by the time I got home I really needed a nap (emotional overwhelm perhaps?) but the kittens were having none of it. They romped on me until I gave up and went into my office and began working, amidst a continuing light rain of baby spiders. They’ve been hatching since Sunday afternoon and I’m really REALLY ready for this to be over. It’s all well & good in a book, but living in a spider hatchery is just tiring. (Welcome to the desert – happens here all the time).
Janet – I am SO envious of your trip to listen to Hildegard von Bingen’s music – I hope it is as magical as it sounds.
Hope all y’all have sufficient ways to stay cool – I’m hearing that it’s HOT in England this week. If you get overheated, eat a dill pickle, it will cool you down and rehydrate you more efficiently than plain water.
Love –
Dia
July 10th, 2013 at 9:10 am
Dear Janet
It is difficult to conjecture about Nigella, as she is a very private person. But maybe one day she will decide to tell her story. The early phases of a relationship are often very difficulty from their ending. I don’t think she was able to forsee what would happen, but there is likely to have been a lot leading up to it.
I am sure the concert will be a very spiritual experience for you on many levels. I was once in meditation given the information that Hildegard of Bingen was an earlier incarnation of Dame Julian of Norwich. If so, it is an exception to the rule that we don’t tend to have multiple famous lifetimes.
Thanks very much for your thoughts this week,
Love
Lana
July 10th, 2013 at 9:17 am
Dear Dia
My stuffed toy squirrel still hasn’t spoken to me, but you’ll be the first to know if he does. Have you made any headway in your eco-balancing?
Insects are also the province of Virgo, and our existence is very tame compared to yours. My Virgoan grandson, who is nearly 3, adores insects and particularly spiders. Monday was spent looking for tiny creatures in the garden: we found 2 spiders (it’s a small garden), a huge beetle, a caterpillar and a centipede. One day I will tell him the story of your shower of baby spiders.
I do like a dill pickle, but didn’t realize their properties…
Thanks very much,
Love
Lana